Friday, 30 January 2009

All my Christmases at once!

I haven't been able to find the words to describe the incredible evening which was Gav & Scott's wedding ...

Since I've known them, they've spoilt me rotten and infused me with more Christmas Spirit (the whole year round!) than I thought possible. Through them I've learnt to love December again and to relish the mulled wine flowing through my veins.

The first Christmas I knew them they got engaged, and finally, three years later they tied the knot in a celebration that was completely them ... right down to the mini Christmas dinner canapes!

I'm eternally grateful to have them both as friends and so pleased to be part of such a beautiful day.

A picture says a thousand words ... plus, I didn't take my camera!

A Reading by Elizabeth Pfahl
An extract from an Ancient Sanskrit Poem by Kalidasa
Look to this day-
For it is life, the very life of life.
In its brief course lie all the varieties and realities of your existence-
The bliss of growth;
The glory of action;
The splendour of beauty.
For yesterday is already a dream,
And tomorrow is only a vision;
But today, well lived, makes every yesterday a dream of happiness,
And every tomorrow a vision of hope-
Look well, therefore, to this day.

Monday, 5 January 2009

Snow!!!

First snow of the season!!

Trudged to work in the snow this morning (where did all those people come from?!) and have just spent the past 10 minutes looking out the windows as the snow flutters down ... with sub-zero temperatures for the past week, there's no doubt it's winter!!!

Hooray!

Wednesday, 24 December 2008

We wish you a Merry Christmas ...

Christmas Lizzie pops up again to wish all 2 of you who read this (and your families of course) a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

This festive season is exhausting but every year I wish I'd thrown myself into it that little bit more ... but I guess that leaves room for improvement next year.

But for now I'm looking forward to some time alone ... I'll get the train up this afternoon after a few champagnes at work, run to Tesco Metro before it shuts to buy myself some treats, then go home, check out the car and start putting up the fairy lights. With a bit of luck the DVD player will work so I'll settle down with a bottle of cheap sparkling wine, some smoked salmon and 'It's a Wonderful Life' before crawling into bed before Santa comes.

It's going to be a weird Christmas Day this year. I'm back to the Henthorns so it's just like old times in some ways, but this year it'll just be Jennie, John, Rob & I for Christmas dinner. I'll go over early morning to see Nick & Vic before they head to her Mum's place and then I'll talk to Mum & Dad (because I don't have a phone in my house!). We're heading the Linda & Geoff's for drinks and then dinner in the very late afternoon. It'll be lovely and I really am one of the family, but I'll still feel a bit like an orphan!

Then over the next few days I'll catch up with Auntie Margaret & Pauline, drive across to Darlington to see Nick & Cat, hopefully drop in to see Nick & Vic in Leeds and with a bit of luck get in some post-Christmas shopping as well!!

But I always enjoy a bit of peace and quiet over Christmas ... waking up early and wandering around the garden with a cup of tea in my pjs, walking to the crem and seeing everyone else amidst their Christmas morning ritual of visiting loved ones who are no longer with us, going home and cranking up the carols while I get ready, driving down the empty roads to Augton ... and then all the chaos kicks in!

Ho! Ho! Ho!

Monday, 22 December 2008

Snotmas

I've been rather sick the past week. Partly self-induced, but largely thanks to everyone I know being sick the week before ...

Things are getting better now, but I'm looking forward to a few proper days off come Wednesday afternoon ...

Amidst the hallucinations, the hot sweats and the ridiculous lack of appetite was the incredibly fabulous bright light of Gav & Scott's wedding.

I'll post again once all the photos are in, but Christmas will never be the same again ...

Sunday, 7 December 2008

A Ruse (& Co.) Family Christmas


While we were all in town we decided to celebrate the day after the night before with Christmas lunch at the Princess Victoria.


Secret Santa only proved that some of us have known each other a little too long ...


A lazy afternoon of photos, crackers (Thanks Bry!), good food, giggles and a lot less alcohol than the night before!

Saturday, 6 December 2008

Spice up your life!

Dunkie-babes celebrated his favourite film ever and held a Spiceworld party - fancy dress of course, with the theme being 'spice'.

Lots of drinks, lots of costume swapping, lots of friends ... what more could you want?!

Thursday, 27 November 2008

Thanksgiving

I'm the first person to latch on to any traditional celebration, regardless of it's relevance to my life/beliefs/culture. Part of it is about experiencing other cultures and traditions and the other is just a good excuse to celebrate something ... anything ...

So, while I won't be cooking a turkey this Thanksgiving I may just make some time to whip up a sweet potato or pumpkin pie ... and I'll take the opportunity to be thankful for the many blessings of my life ...

I have a morning trawl through a number of blogs and came across this great post on Jason Mraz's (about an article by Kim Painter) the other day.

So, showing gratitude doesn't just give you the warm fuzzies ... it could be good for your health too!

I've got so many things to be thankful for in my life that spending a little time each day making an effort to appreciate them shouldn't be a struggle.

Thank you for reading ;)